Welcome to the
Sex, Love & Relationship Challenge!

Have you ever thought any of the following:


“I wish I had more courage to make the first move”

“Why do all my boyfriends cheat on me?

“Sober sex - what’s that??”

“I wish I was happy being single”

“I would like to find a way to forgive my mother/father and reconnect”

“There just aren’t any nice guys left”

“Why do I feel so bad after hooking up?”


JULY 10th - 14th 2021

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💔 Does fear, shame or negative thoughts keep you from the sex and love you want and need?

💔 Have you ever felt so nervous, anxious, and worried about making the first move or chatting up someone on Scruff or Grindr you don't get what you want?

In this 5-Day workshop, you'll learn how to release shame, fear, confusion, and guilt and
move into confidence, joy, heart-centered connection and freedom to
experience the love, sex, and connection you want and deserve.

I'm In!

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It doesn't matter if you are single, dating, married, monogamous, or a polyamorous GBTQ man, your untapped potential for loving yourself and tapping into the ultimate sex, love & relationship(s), that you truly want, is ready to be explored and unlocked. 

😍 It’s time to release the blocks and allow the floodgates of intimacy and heart-centered connection to open in your life.

😍 It’s time to end the lack of trust, depth, and connection in yourself and others.

😍 It’s time to stop the conflict of what you think you want in sex, love & relationships vs what you are settling for today.

😍 It’s time to feel fully safe, secure, and satisfied as you create your ideal relationship(s) instead of settling for some watered-down version of the intimacy and love you truly deserve.

What does the Sex, Love & Relationship
Challenge include?

By joining our #SRLChallenge, you will get access to the following:


A 5-day virtual challenge where we'll be on interactive webinars each day, breaking through everything keeping you from creating the sex, love, and relationships that you want in your life.

Personalized Support

3 personal coaching calls to strategize how you can create more love in your life.


Easy steps to implement all of these great learnings immediately in your life.

In the Sex, Love & Relationship Challenge, you will:

  • Get down to the core of what is holding you back from giving and receiving the kind of sex, love & relationships you want.
  • Understand what is motivating you in sex and love- both positive and negative  motivators.
  • Learn how to tap into your needs and wants while communicating them effectively with ease.
  • Move from "blame and shame" about intimacy, sex, and connection, to confidence and freedom.
  • Expand your definition of sex, love & relationships to create the heart-centered connections you have always wanted.

Experience the 5-day Virtual Challenge

Do you believe that sex, love & relationships for GBTQ men should be celebrated?

If so, you've come to the right place.


JULY 10th - 14th 2021

Join the SLR Challenge today!

What if we told you that:

Shame was the biggest thing keeping you from the sex, love & relationship you want?

In the challenge we are going to address core issues of GBTQ men that keep shame alive so that you can’t thrive.

Come to the challenge to:

  • Understand and know how to release internalized oppression and homophobia.
  • Clearly look at how toxic masculinity has affected you consciously and unconsciously.
  • Know how to release shame so that you can live your desired life with no more hiding.

Coming out often leads men on a hero’s journey where one takes challenges in their life, receives the learnings, grows from the experience, and takes those learnings to impact others and the world.









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You will know how to thrive in sex, love & relationships, allowing you to open possibilities in health, wealth, and spiritually as well..

You are ready now! Make your ideal life a reality and join the challenge. 

Be a part of a community where the conversation is different. You will be able to have connected conversations that are not only based on prestige, money, property, or superficial things. But instead talk,speak and listen from the heart.


JULY 10th - 14th 2021

Count me in!

We too, used to hold on to shame around our sexual identity that kept us from truly feeling like our authentic selves.

We’ve been there, looking in the mirror, having inner conflict, wanting to fully love ourselves, yet feeling unaccepted by society.

Many things can block people from living free, authentic, and vibrant lives. 

For GBTQ men, those block are usually anchored in sex, love & relationships. 

Is it possible that you are putting a cap or lid on your GBTQ life when it comes to the ultimate sex, love & relationships that are perfect for you? Is it possible that you are actually preventing yourself from giving and receiving untapped joy and contentment around sex, love & relationships?

Get off the never-ending hamster wheel of life where you are exhausted proving yourself to others. 

This challenge will diagnose where you have “vitamin deficiencies” in your life and where you need “supplements” in order to thrive. 

We will explore love, sex, & relationships in a way that supports you to figure out where you are now and where you want to be.

Celebrate who you are as a GBTQ man with a clear path to your inspired life.

You have a choice.

Decide if where you are now is where you really want to be, because you can stay there, or you can join the challenge and go where you haven’t gone before.

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Our Team of facilitators:

Mike Gerle

Celebrating the intrinsic nature of gay men to connect sexually, and leveraging that energy to deepen our spiritual and emotional bonds, is what motivates my work as a coach, a podcast host, a writer, a community facilitator, and a gay Elder.

I want heart-centered (love-centered) connections with people, especially my gay brothers. That is why I am dedicating this chapter of my life to providing language, skills, and community for other men who feel the same way. 

Garrett McClure

My goal at Evoco is to inspire and coach men to reach their highest potential while living in integrity of my life's purpose and mission. And my mission is to heal myself and heal my tribe. And by doing that I will heal the world.

For more than two decades, Garrett has leveraged his gift of humanity-driven business values, vast understanding of emerging technology, and the power of smart automation to inspire companies to scale faster, grow stronger and manage resources more effectively.