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join a community of exceptional men

We are creating a mentoring community of GBTQ men.


These Four Pillars are our foundation:



Learn to truly belong in your own skin and to take this feeling of belonging everywhere you go.


Harness your personal power, your creative energies and create the life that you truly want to live.


Stand in confidence of your beliefs, embracing the beauty of difference and sharing support & accountability.



Actively choose love over fear, see the world as your ally and celebrate your sexuality.


Gay Scouts is a different kind of community.


We recognize and celebrate the magnetism of eros that draws us together as gay men. And we leverage that energy to strengthen our love for, and connections to, one another.

This is the home you've been seeking. Here you’ll feel held, supported, and pushed. You will have the tools and confidence to reveal your greatest fears, release your full potential, and experience deep love and heart-nurturing joy.


You will be seen.


You will be heard.


You will be celebrated.

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Gay Scouts @ Evoco:
A private social network for exceptional GBTQ Men


Gay Scouts community embraces a sexy and dignified way of life


Courses, education and training to become more fulfilled, present, and powerful


Connect and learn with men who’ve been there (and teach those who haven't)


Expert guidance from men with advanced certifications and experience


Fun, life-changing experiences in-person and online


Have a blast creating the life you've always wanted!


Move your life from simply functional to profoundly exceptional!


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All the features are available in-app and in the browser.



We'll be adding more in-person events over time starting with LA, Palm Springs & San Diego.


Have you ever thought...


“I don't feel like I truly belong anywhere"

"Hooking up is easy - but making real gay friends seems impossible"

"All gay men want is sex"

"The bars and clubs just aren't fun anymore"

"I'm never going to find real friends, let alone a partner"


We understand. We've been there too.


How does being gay effect your life?

Does the desire for gay sex impact your life today?


At Evoco, we understand that, for gay men, it can be a source of pain and rejection. But once that pain is acknowledged, held, and released with love, our sexual bonds actually fuel a profound sense of belonging for ourselves individually, our communities, and the entire globe.  


We have felt the pain of rejection that comes from believing, at our core, that we’re evil, that Satan himself is controlling our behavior.

One of us knows what it is like to sit across from a church leader, his Mormon Bishop, and hear that his actions are worse than that of a murderer.

One of us knows the sting of being called, “Gretchen the fag” every day during grade school. 

We know what it’s like to feel our natural desire to be close to the high school basketball star we often walked home from school with, characterized as defective and abnormal. That desire was so “bad” we were forced into misguided medical treatments and suspect mental therapies.

We know how a deep level of shame, that is inextricably tied to our crotches, can cause a man to create a false version of himself. We know how it causes us to bring innocent girls into these false versions of ourselves. Then we break their hearts, our lies degrade their lives, our friendships, and wreak havoc on our entire life.

We know what it’s like to lead a shallow, terrified, existence.

Our friends didn’t know the sexual focus of our raging hormones was so wildly different from theirs. Our parents didn’t know who we really loved, or that we hated ourselves enough to try to end our own life. We know what it’s like to see the world as a hostile, shaming place bent on our destruction.

But it doesn't have to be this way!

When we look in the mirror and see our own reflection, we think, “Damn, that’s one smart, sexy man.”

After speaking, coaching, camping, meditating, and sharing dungeon space with thousands of gay men all over the globe, we’ve learned the explosive power of our attraction can be used to fuel empowered liberation, freedom, increased feelings of self-worth and a life-changing feeling of celebration. But, we know this transformation requires more than wishful thinking or just a positive mindset. It requires more than screaming “fuck you” to those who reject us. It takes a lot more than a protest or parade.

Truly belonging requires uncovering and releasing all the negative thoughts, negative emotions, and old beliefs connected to the idea that we are somehow defective. 

We deserve to stand comfortably in our own dignity.

We deserve to feel powerful being in our own skin.

We will know at our core we’re perfect just the way we are.

And we will know our intrinsic nature, that sweet and all-consuming natural yearning to ask out the basketball player on the walk from school, is totally normal, exciting (yet a little scary), and perfectly natural!

Welcome home.
Welcome to the Gay Scouts.

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